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For the person being cheated on, this behavior could feed into past trauma and actually keep the partner engaged in a negative loop.<\/p>\n
For the person cheating, doing it again after having done it in the past might reinforce negative self-beliefs. \u00abFor the cheater, it could be out of their control, with addiction or impulse issues negatively impacting their self-esteem,\u00bb says Ratush. In fact, he tells us that the situation might be so out of their control that \u00absome serial cheaters, especially those prone to addiction, can be so emotionally possessed that they will put a loving relationship at risk just to fulfill their compulsive needs.\u00bb<\/p>\n
Now that you know some characteristics and behaviors of a serial cheater, it should be easier to discern the warning signs. Here’s how to identify that someone has a history of cheating, or that in doing it now, it isn’t the first time.<\/p>\n
Anyone can be a cheater, but some demographics are more prone to cheating than others. For instance, men are more statistically likely to cheat than women, and older people are more likely to cheat than younger ones.<\/p>\n
If you’ve discovered that your partner is a serial cheater, you shouldn’t wait to take action. You’ll want to begin taking your next steps as soon as possible.<\/p>\n
First, you need to prioritize your physical health. \u00abWhen cheating is discovered, the first concern should be personal health: stop sexual intimacy immediately to avoid any health risks,\u00bb recommends Ratush. If your partner claims to have taken precautions when cheating, that doesn’t mean it’s safe to engage with them. You’ll want to both get tested right away.<\/p>\n
Next, therapy is in order. \u00bb Work on a plan to engage in psychiatric treatment involving both a biological work-up and talk therapy,\u00bb says Ratush. Unless the situation is dealt with, your partner is likely to cheat again. And you should also take part in therapy, both to process the trauma of your partner cheating and to make sure you don’t get caught up in their cycle of it.<\/p>\n